Someone said that a way to a man`s hear is through his stomach. Before you learn how to make him want you, you have to find a good restaurant to take him to. Once you find something that will appeal to his appetite, you can apply everything you learned about how to make him want you. Just remember to be patient and not to look to desperate.
If this is a first date, then take the time to get to know a little bit about your companion's preferences. There is nothing worse than showing up in front of the local steak house only to find out that your date is a die hard vegetarian. If you know any of his friends or family, pick their brains for his favorite meals, or any other tidbits. It will make you look like a very caring woman and you start the evening off already ahead on "points". This is how to make him want you.
Skip the five star places, you will either come off looking pretentious or pathetic. Save those places for special occasions later in the relationship. On the other hand, don't go totally cheap and try a fast food place either; nothing says I don't care like a date that starts off with talking into a plastic clown head. Your best bet is to choose a mid-price, sit down type restaurant with a wide ranging menu. Most places can accommodate special requests, so don't be afraid to ask.
Choosing a good restaurant for your date also means choosing to dress appropriately and to use good manners as well. Don't think you are going to get very far with a date if you have just walked up to the door of a very nice, Italian restaurant in cut off jeans and flip flops. Humiliation is not an aphrodisiac, trust me. Do show up nicely dressed, and hold the door open for him (only if you want), good manners never go out of style. This is exactly how to make him want you without looking too desperate.
At the table, decide whether or not you will order for both of you, or if he would prefer to give him selection to the server herself. Some men think that is urbane and sophisticated, others find it creepy and demeaning, so ask first. Watch for her cues for your own behavior. If she does not even glance at the wine menu, ask if she would mind if you had a glass first, she might be anti-alcohol, and your glass of wine may just cost you, big time.
Definitely offer him dessert. If he refuses, but does so rather reluctantly, then order him something to go, or offer to split his choice with her. (If it is chocolate, you will have earned major brownie points, pardon the pun).
Lastly, when the check comes, don't make some huge production about paying it. If he wants to pay part, and you want to pay the whole thing, do not ruin a nice evening with an argument. Suggest that she pay the tip, or pay for the movie. Or better yet, tell him that he can buy the meal on your next date. You have just deflected potential hurt feelings, and asked for a second date in one smooth move. You have to admire an efficient woman!
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